Pathetic dating profiles
So just to get that out of the way: When a guy likes you, it’s obvious.
I’m not talking about constant, minute-by-minute response times and non-stop chatting, but if a guy is in the mindset of establishing and participating in a relationship with you, he’s not going to unpredictably disappear for days or weeks at a time. letting a guy go who is already showing signs that he’s not that into you early on…
Finding the still point of sanity that rests in the background behind the frantic insanity of the outer world and, more importantly, that rests even behind the chaotic and perhaps constant thoughts of your inner world. where you recharge your batteries and re-connect to your own sense of OK-ness. Your relationship will improve immensely when you focus on the inner you and not what he’s doing or not doing.
What does this have to do with relationships though? It doesn’t happen in the outside world and it doesn’t happen in your relationship or through your partner. And, from that place of renewed inner clarity, they come back together with you and that improved inner state reflects itself outward in how they relate to you. Relationships aren’t something to extract happiness from. Relationships work best when viewed as a place to bring happiness into, so as to help your partner come into alignment with that inner state as well (and vice versa). We all need space, although men relate to space and silence in a way that is different in character to the way women seem to relate to having space…
Now there might be those moments where you catch a guy in a chatty mood, but those are best viewed as the the men should text a lot or that men want to text a lot, you’ll save yourself a lot of grief wanting something that, for the most part, goes against a man’s nature.When it comes to relationships, treat your actual physical time together as your quality time.